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Many Christians have been amazed at
their ability to give “over and above” to their church. The
eight steps (see “Making An Over and Above Gift”) are offered
to help you in this regard.
These lessons are individual meditations aimed at inspiring and
challenging us to see God's plan for giving. Each lesson
challenges us to re-evaluate our beliefs on giving by reminding
us how significant giving is to the worship of God. By
highlighting biblical characters that chose to give
sacrificially, we learn that giving is an important act of
obedience. More importantly, these lessons show us that as we
give, we are participating in His work.
Lesson One: >>> Our Gifts to God
Of all that we do in church today,
presenting our gifts to God is as much an act of worship as
anything else we do. What is the significance of an offering?
Why has the act of giving always been deemed an appropriate and
necessary human response to God? All religions have practiced
some sort of offering. Even the sacrifice of human life as an
expression of religious devotion has not passed away, but
offerings of every imaginable kind are still presented on a
daily basis around the world. Within the Jewish and Christian
traditions, the offering has always held a central role.
Throughout the Bible, we find people giving offerings to God and
God welcoming the offering. The gifts we bring to God are
important because of the needs they meet and because of their
positive impact on the giver. The most important aspect of
giving, however, lies in its symbolism. Only limited
satisfaction is derived when we give in order to pay the
church’s bills. To experience the genuine joy of giving, we must
know the powerful symbolic significance of the gift. It is for
that very reason we do not pass the plate here at Desert Breeze.
We want people to give for the right reasons. The statement is
true that “the Gospel is free, but someone has to pay the
bills”, however this attitude in giving falls far short in many
areas in contrast to giving with pure motives. One that stands
above the rest is the attitude of gratitude towards God for what
He has done in our lives and the lives of those we love. Maybe
you are one who can testify to God’s miraculous intervention in
a hopeless situation. Maybe you can even testify to the ongoing
changes in your life that can only be explained by His grace.
Even outside those special circumstances, if you think about it,
His common grace offers us all so many things we take for
granted; the air in our lungs, the heartbeat in our chest, the
sun rising faithfully each day, our senses, food, clothing,
friends and family. The list is incomprehensible. All these
things mentioned and more are offered to even those who don’t
know Him or acknowledge Him. There are no conditions.
So if God can give unconditionally,
and we are to become more and more like Him, let’s not
prioritize things like our standard of living over standard of
giving.
The gratitude we have as a church
family, shown through our unconditional giving will be evidenced
by our ability to increase our capacity to build lives and not
just a structure – to not just pay the bills, but pay honor to
God for who He is and what He promises to continue to do in His
church. And to think, God invites us to join Him and be a part
of His work and as it says in
2 Peter 1: 4
– “participate in His divine nature”. As you think about this,
continue to pray and meditate on all God has done and is doing
in your life. Thank Him in word and in deed. It is not
about “have to”; it is about “want
to”. Come to think of it, that was His attitude in giving Christ
on the cross.
Lesson Two: >>> the giver is in the gift
Have you ever known someone who decided to
really straighten things up and clean out the clutter? They want
to be responsible, a good steward of the things God had blessed
them with. With the best of intentions in mind they purge the
closets, the storage shed and garage. The things they just can’t
live without always find a spot. If there’s no room, we’ll make
room. What is left is old and broken, useless and obsolete.
“Why, we can’t just throw it away, that would be wasteful, at
one time that junk was very useful and valuable, let’s give it
to the church”. Sounds funny, but it is true and it happens more
often that you might think and in ways you may not have
considered. That is not to say that people haven’t benefited
from donations given to the church. Our aim, to make a point, is
not at the receiver here, we’re focusing on the heart of the
giver. Let’s look at God’s word in one such instance:
2 Samuel 24:18-25 On
that day Gad went to David and said to him, “Go up and build an
altar to the LORD on the threshing floor of Araunah the Jebusite.”
So David went up, as the LORD had commanded through Gad. When
Araunah looked and saw the king and his men coming toward him,
he went out and bowed down with his face to the ground. Araunah
said, “Why has my LORD the king come to his servant?” “To buy
your threshing floor,” David answered, “so I can build an altar
to the LORD, that the plague on the people may be stopped.”
Araunah said to David, “Let my LORD the king take what ever
pleases him and offer it up. Here are oxen for a burnt offering,
and here are threshing sledges and ox yokes for the wood. O
king, Araunah gives all this to the king.” Araunah also said to
him, “May the LORD your God accept you.” But the king replied to
Araunah, “No, I insist on paying you for it. I will not
sacrifice to the LORD my God burnt offerings that cost me
nothing.” So David bought the threshing floor and the oxen and
paid fifty shekels of silver for them. David built an altar to
the LORD there and sacrificed burnt offerings and fellowship
offerings. Then the LORD answered prayer in behalf of the land,
and the plague on Israel was stopped.
It is often said, “the gift represents the giver.” However, the
gift is more than just a “representation” of the worshipper. As
we present our gift, we present ourselves. In fact, the value of
the gift is determined by how much of ourselves is actually “in”
the gift.
2 Samuel 24:18-25 tells an unusual story. King David could have
obeyed God without any personal costs. Araunah had generously
offered to David everything that was needed to fulfill God’s
command–the land, the wood of the altar, and even the animal to
sacrifice. David could have made this offering to God without it
costing him one cent. David, however, refused Araunah’s offer.
Why? What did David know that may escape us? David understood
the symbolic identification that exists between the giver and
the gift. David could not offer anything to God that did not
personally cost him. The gift that does not touch the giver does
not touch God. Through prayer and discussion with whomever you
decide, explore this relationship between you, the giver, and
your gifts to God. If you’ve decided to be a sacrificial giver,
don’t mourn the pain of your offering. Do as David did and
celebrate the challenge of it.
Lesson Three: >>> my money and me
Paraphrase: The relationship between purse and person is
intimate. “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be
also.” (Matthew 6:21)
That’s intimacy! Find the treasure
and you find the heart. There is a sense in which money is me.
Why? Most people receive their income from employment. Suppose
you work for a company forty hours per week. You give your time,
energy, physical and mental abilities and yourself during those
forty hours. At the end of the week, your company gives you a
paycheck. Analyze what has occurred. You have given forty hours
of your life. In return, you received a paycheck. That paycheck
in very real terms is you or at least a part of you! Every
dollar you make has you “in” it! My money is me! Consider the
implications this has on how we spend our money. To spend money
is to spend life! Where I put my money is where I put my life!
We are in everything we purchase because we are “in” our money.
When Jesus said, “Where your
treasure is, there your heart will be also,” He was speaking on
several levels. Jesus’ statement refers to the intimate
relationship that exists between our lives and money. We spend a
great deal of our lives thinking about money: earning it, saving
it, investing it, spending it, and worrying about it. The word
“heart” refers to the emotional aspects of our lives; who we are
inside. Money stirs emotions, touches our hopes, fears,
insecurities, plans, ambitions, and more. It is no wonder that a
high percentage of divorced couples identify money as a major
contributor to their failed marriages. Money is a hot topic.
Luke 22:19-20
And He took bread, gave thanks and broke it, and gave it to
them, saying, “This is My body given for you, do this in
remembrance of Me.” In the same way, after supper He took the
cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in My blood, which is
poured out for you.”
At the Last Supper, Jesus presented a
beautiful symbolic message in which He identified His life with
the wine and the bread. As we eat the bread and drink the cup,
we remember Him. In a similar fashion, we are in our gifts. As
Christ gives Himself to us in the bread and cup, we give
ourselves to Him in the offering. In giving His life it was not
lost. His life was given in sacrifice so that we could all
benefit from it. In much the same way, we can give of ourselves,
through our money, so that many others can benefit from our
sacrifice, and the benefits are eternal for both the giver and
the receiver. Take time to pray and dream about some ways your
gifts will benefit others.
Lesson Four: >>> the value of a
gift
Mark 12:41-44
Jesus sat down opposite the place where the offerings were put
and watched the crowd putting their money into the temple
treasury. Many rich people threw money in large amounts. But a
poor widow came and put in two small copper coins, worth only a
fraction of a penny. Calling His disciples to Him, Jesus said,
“I tell you the truth, this poor widow has put more into the
treasury than all the others. They all gave out of their wealth;
but she, out of her poverty, put in everything – all she had to
live on.”
What determines
the value of the gift to God? Is one gift better than another?
Is God more receptive to some gifts than others? When we
consider the acceptance of Abel’s gift and the rejection of
Cain’s, then the answer must be “yes.” What makes a gift more
valuable? American culture would dictate, “The more you spend on
it, the more valuable the gift!” Jesus, however, never equated a
person’s contribution with a financial amount. One day Jesus
stood at the temple treasury to see what people gave. Jesus saw
the rich give huge sums. He made an interesting comment about
the gifts of the rich.
He didn’t condemn the gifts of the
wealthy, but recognized that the gifts were given out of
abundance. The giving from the overflow and their gifts didn’t
cost them anything personally. Jesus watched the widow give two
copper coins, a very real amount. In practical terms, the widow
contributed nothing of real value to the Temple. However, the
widow gave “all she had to live on.” Those two coins represented
the totality of her life. She didn’t just put two worthless
coins into the treasury; she put herself in! The value of the
widow is not found in the coins, but rather the value of the
coins is found in the widow. As we have stated before, it is not
about equal gifts, it is about equal sacrifice.
THE VALUE OF THE GIFT IS DETERMINED
BY ITS VALUE TO THE GIVER.
Mark 14:3-9
While He was in Bethany, reclining at the table in the home of a
man known as Simon the Leper, a woman came with an alabaster jar
of very expensive perfume, made of pure nard. She broke the jar
and poured the perfume on His head. Some of those present were
saying indignantly to one another, “Why this waste of perfume?
It could have been sold for more than a year's wages and the
money given to the poor.” And they rebuked her harshly. “Leave
her alone,” said Jesus. “Why are you bothering her? She has done
a beautiful thing to Me. The
poor you will always have with you,
and you can help them any time you want. But you will not always
have Me. She did what she could. She poured perfume on My body
beforehand to prepare for My burial. I tell you the truth,
wherever the gospel is preached throughout the world, what she
has done will also be told, in memory of her.”
The greater a gift’s value to its
giver, the greater its value to God. The gift that touches the
heart of God must first touch the life of the giver. The
disciples didn’t understand the actions of this woman. They
condemned her generosity by suggesting the money should have
been given to the poor. The value of the perfume was equal to a
laborer’s annual income. In today’s economy, the vial of
precious ointment would have been worth tens of thousands of
dollars. This was indeed a valuable gift. Unlike the widow’s
gift, the perfume had great financial value.
Jesus was so impressed with the
gift that He said the story would be told as a memorial to her.
What made this gift so special? Scholars have long wondered what
the woman was doing with a possession of such enormous value.
We know that she was Mary, the sister of
Martha and Lazarus. We know she deeply loved the Lord and her
actions showed that she was willing to give anything and
everything to Him. Scholars suggest that the alabaster jar was
Mary’s dowry. Eastern customs demanded that each bride bring to
the marriage a dowry of great value in relation to the bride’s
station in society. No dowry meant no marriage. If scholars are
correct, Mary gave away her right to marriage when she poured
out her dowry on Jesus. Mary’s gift was of immense personal
value; Mary’s future life was in her gift. Her husband-to-be and
her children-to-be were in her gift. Like the widow, Mary gave
everything she had. This gift was special to Jesus because He
recognized its special meaning to Mary. Discuss the eternal and
temporal value of gift giving and giving to God’s work in the
church.
Lesson Five:
>>> giving as a gift
1 Chronicles
29:10-16
David praised the LORD in the presence of the whole assembly,
saying, “Praise be to You, O LORD, God of our father Israel,
from everlasting to everlasting.
Yours, O LORD,
is the greatness, the power, the glory, the majesty, and the
splendor, for everything in heaven and earth is Yours. Yours, O
LORD, is the kingdom; You are exalted as head overall. Wealth
and honor come from You; You are the ruler of all things. In
Your hands are strength and power to exalt and give strength to
all. Now, our God, we give You thanks, and praise Your glorious
name. But who am I, and who are my people, that we should be
able to give as generously as this? Everything comes from You,
and we have given You only what comes from Your hand. We are
aliens and strangers in Your sight, as were all our forefathers.
Our days on earth are like a shadow, without hope. O LORD our
God, as for all this abundance that we have provided for
building You a temple for Your Holy Name, it comes from Your
hand, and all of it belongs to You.”
1 Chronicles 29 tells of King
David’s efforts to raise money for the construction of what
would become Solomon’s Temple. David expresses his heartfelt
commitment for the project, pledges his own financial
commitment, and challenges the leaders of Israel to consecrate
themselves too. This chapter documents how the leaders willfully
and joyfully made their financial commitments and how the people
of Israel joined their leaders with joy and great enthusiasm.
Overcome with emotion by the
people’s overwhelmingly positive response, David seems to
struggle in an effort to understand and explain the magnitude
and meaning of what has occurred.
Consider the following
paraphrase of David’s reaction:
Lord, everything is Yours! You have all
the greatness, power, glory, victory, and majesty. Everything
that is in heaven and earth is Yours. You are above all. All
riches, honor, and power come from You. But, Lord God, I just
don’t understand it. Who am I and who are these people that we
are able to give so willingly to You? Everything comes from You.
Everything we have has come from You. The only things we have
given to You are those things that were Yours in the first
place. God, we are just sojourners in this world. We don’t own
anything. We are just passing through. Not one of us will last
long in this world. And now, God, somehow we have given all
these resources to build a house for You. And everything we have
given has come from You and belongs to You.
David was overcome with the
realization that he and his people were given a high honor and
rare privilege. God provided a way for them to participate with
Him even though God didn’t need David or his people. God created
a world with a word; He could build the Temple with a thought.
Yet, God invited David and the Israelites to join Him in this
work.
David saw this experience for what
it was. God had given them a wonderful gift, the Gift of Giving.
Likewise, God has favored us by giving us the opportunity and
ability to give to His work. His invitation to join in His work
is, in itself, a gift.
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Capital stewardship campaigns rely on
church members making gifts “over and above” their current level
of giving. The best path to increased giving is the spiritual
path, where you set your heart on things above. Financial
priorities then take shape from spiritual priorities. One way of
defining this is, “Lifestyle Stewardship,” a term used to
describe a level of giving that affects one’s living. The
challenge of Lifestyle Stewardship is to find ways to boldly and
prayerfully let your giving touch your living! Here are eight
ways you may consider when determining your commitment.
1. Practice Priority Budgeting >>>
Many
families will choose to rearrange their priorities and give up
something in their current budget in order to give more to a
capital campaign. Priority budgeting may mean postponing a
planned expenditure such as a new car, vacation, home remodeling
or other major purchase. Many Christians giving to capital
stewardship campaigns find a way to give through sacrificial
commitments made in faith, coupled with priority budgeting.
2. Redirect
Present Expenditures >>>
Often,
families have significant short-term expenditures for special
needs. One example is the large expenditure a family incurs for
a child to attend college. A family realized that their
daughters would be graduating from college during the three
years of a capital campaign and, as a result, they were able to
increase their commitment to the second and third years of the
campaign by thousands of dollars by giving what they had been
spending on their daughters’ tuition. Another example would be
cash flow that is freed up when a loan is paid.
3. Increase Giving
with Increased Income >>>
Some
people receive periodic increases in salary or bonuses from
their employers. The temptation for many of us is to increase
our lifestyle to fit the higher income. In many instances,
families have decided that they will commit the full amount of
salary increases for the term of the campaign.
4. Give
from Your Excess >>>
A young man decided that two collectors’
baseball cards worth over $20,000 he had been holding for a
number of years would be the most appropriate means of sacrifice
for his family. Some families save money over a period of years
for a special project. A couple had saved $80,000 to build a
lake cabin. When their church entered a capital stewardship
campaign, they decided the needs of the church were greater than
their need for a second home.
5. Commit
Unexpected Cash >>>
Often,
people pray for God to show them a way they can give beyond what
they can presently see or afford. Sometimes, the answers come
unexpectedly. A couple had been praying for weeks about their
commitment to the church capital campaign. Much to their
surprise, they received an inheritance of several thousand
dollars. They gave the entire amount to their church as part of
their three-year commitment, in addition to a commitment from
their regular income.
6. Sacrifice
Your Extra Time >>>
Some family
members have extra time they would be willing to use in a
part-time job to be able to give more to the church. This is
particularly true for families whose children are grown and away
from home and for semi-retired or retired couples. A man was in
the process of retiring
when his church entered a campaign.
He and his wife secured new jobs and gave the first three years
of their retirement income to the capital campaign.
7. Give
the Pennies that Add up to Dollars >>>
We can
all identify small daily expenses we make without thinking that
could be saved with relative ease. A 75 cent soda each day at
work (5 days a week) added to two $3.50 coffee drinks a week,
one fast food meal ($5.50) and an outing at the movies ($25.00)
adds up. Over a three year period that is over $3,100.00. Get
creative and make your own calculations. You may be surprised
at what it adds up to.
8. Donate
Appreciated Assets >>>
Many
people own stocks that are worth significantly more than the
original purchase price. That is good news. The bad news is that
if these stocks are sold, a significant portion of the gain
would be lost to taxation. Gifts of appreciated assets –
typically investment securities or real estate – can be very
advantageous to both the donor and to the church. By
transferring ownership of the asset to the church, the donor
avoids capital gains taxes on the sale of the asset. In
addition, the donor receives an income tax charitable deduction
for the full market value of the asset.
That in effect makes these gifts less costly to make.
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For
Example: |
Sell asset
and gift net proceeds |
Gift asset
directly |
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Value of
Assets |
$12,000 |
$12,000 |
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Original
Purchase Price |
$3,000 |
$3,000 |
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Amount of
Appreciation |
$9,000 |
$9,000 |
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Capital
Gain Taxes |
$2,340 |
$0 |
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Proceeds to
Church |
$9,660 |
$12,000 |
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(Asset
Value minus taxes – assumes 12-month holding period, 20%
capital gains tax) |
Though it is important to invest
your giving to further the mission of the ministry God has laid
on your heart, it is also important to consider the tax
implications of making a gift to the church. Before making a
commitment of this type, consult your CPA, tax attorney or other
financial advisor.
A Final Word
Giving does not have to be in equal increments over the
three-year period of the campaign. You might be able to give
more in the third year than the first two. As you think about
your financial commitment to the campaign, think not of just
your potential to give right now, but also of your potential to
give in the future. It might be that you can make a three-year
commitment in which 20 percent is given in the first year, 30
percent in the second year and 50 percent in the third.
As we mentioned earlier,... 2 Samuel
24:24 King David declared,
“I will not sacrifice to the Lord my God burnt offerings that
cost me nothing.” (NIV)
David understood a gift that would touch the heart of God must
first touch the heart of the giver! This is the spirit of
Lifestyle Stewardship: If it is for my God, my gift must have
value and meaning to me. Often, Lifestyle Stewardship means
giving up something in one area so that you can give more of
yourself in another. The three keys to effective Lifestyle
Stewardship are:
Reassess lifestyle Rearrange priorities
Reallocate resources
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DARE YOU TO
MOVE
- words
and music by Jonathan Foreman
- © 2003 Sony Music Entertainment Inc. - CCLI#942442
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